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Gabriel Perez
Salt Lake City, Utah USA
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Advice to Gabriel at 10:
1. No matter what you continue to think, it is not your fault that your parents got divorced when you were younger. Listen to everyone around you that is telling you this, because you need to learn now that its not.
2. Put more effort into your choir work, you will turn out to love it and your director knows that you are going to develop a strong voice. If you put effort into it now, instead of him trying to convince you, you will thank your self later in life.
3. Don't doubt your choice to leave your friends that you have made through life. The choir school is such a huge opportunity and you end up knowing its one of the best things that has happened in your life.
4. Talk to Eric your counselor he is there to help you. You need to learn now that you have been caused so much pain and agony from your parents separating. If you don't it will make you have a sense of abandonment and because of that you will stay with people you really shouldn't. You will in turn sabotage relationships so you fell you have control and don't get hurt.
Advice to Gabriel at 16:
1. Your first "real" relationship with a girl is not what you think it is. She wants you to save her and no matter what you hope and do you can not. You will be told that it is love and you need to hold onto it, but after numerous stupid arguments and growth you will realize its a joke.
2. Keep up the hard work at your job, even though it is your first it will truly define your work effort throughout all of life. Don't even think of dating girls from work!
Advice to Gabriel at 17:
1. A girl is going to come along and she is going to absolutely sweep you off your feet. She is going to come out of an abusive relationship and you are going to want to help her and make things all better. Once again you can not save her! You are going to get hurt, and you are going to hurt her. You will fall in love with her, but it is not going to work out.
Advice to Gabriel at 18:
1. You will be presented with two choices. Move in with your girlfriend of almost 2 years, or go to college. You will be pressured and swayed into believing that it would be selfish of you to go off to college, but it is the best thing for you. You will regret it for years and years wishing that at this moment in time you would have chose college instead of the girl.
2. Do not take her back! She cheated on you with your best friend and that in no way shape or form is ok. She cheated on you, there is no excuse that she can come with that should make it better, nor lead you to believe that she wont do it again. You will always think in the back of your mind that something is going on, and no matter what you try to convince yourself you don't trust her.
3. Leave just leave. You will doubt finally drawing the line that enough is enough, but it is the best thing for you and will open so many different doors for you. Run, don't walk, and the bottle is not the answer.
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